These Connected Graves in the Netherlands Prove Love Conquers All

Frank Janssen, Wikimedia Commons // CC BY-SA 3.0
Frank Janssen, Wikimedia Commons // CC BY-SA 3.0

Established in 1785, Het Oude Kerkhof in Roermond, the Netherlands, is one of the oldest municipal cemeteries in the country—and it's home to a pair of graves that use a crafty design to prove love can conquer anything.

As author Loren Rhoads explains in her new book 199 Cemeteries to See Before You Die, in 1842 a 22-year-old Catholic noblewoman named J.C.P.H. van Aefferden fell in love with a 33-year-old commoner named J.W.C. van Gorkhum, a colonel in the Dutch cavalry who happened to be Protestant. Their marriage was a local scandal, but the pair stayed together for 40 years. Their union only ended with van Gorkhum's death in 1880, and even then, van Aefferden made sure they wouldn't be totally separated.

At the time, plots in Het Oude Kerkhof ("The Old Cemetery" in Dutch) were strictly divided into Catholic, Protestant, and Jewish sections, with borders maintained by thick hedges or brick walls. As a Protestant, van Gorkhum couldn't be buried in the van Aefferden family plot in the Catholic section, where she was supposed to spend eternity.

A photograph of two graves in Roermond, the Netherlands, known as Het graf met de handjes, or “Grave with the little hands.”
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The devoted wife got around the predicament by ordering a unique pair of grave markers—two tall white monuments that stretch above the brick wall separating the Catholic and Protestant sections. From each monument, a white hand (one masculine, the other feminine) reaches out to grasp the other, their fingers locked for eternity.

Colonel van Gorkhum was buried beneath the grave with the masculine hand, at the edge of the Protestant section, and when his wife died eight years later, she was laid to rest beneath the grave with the feminine hand, at the edge of the Catholic section.

A close-up photograph of two graves in Roermond, the Netherlands, known as Het graf met de handjes, or “Grave with the little hands.”
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Nearly 130 years later, tourists flock to the graves, which are known locally as Het graf met de handjes, or “Grave with the little hands.” It's a beautiful reminder that when there's a will, love tends to find a way.

Soon You'll Be Able to Book a Night Inside the Palace of Versailles

The exterior of the Palace of Versailles
The exterior of the Palace of Versailles
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Beginning next spring, interested tourists can say au revoir to more traditional lodging in favor of spending the night inside the Palace of Versailles, as Thrillist reports.

Back in 2015, the palace’s management announced it was looking for an outside partner to convert three of the palace’s buildings into guest accommodations. That outside partner turned out to be Airelles, a luxury hospitality group with three other properties in France.

In 2020, the company will begin accepting bookings for Le Grand Contrôle, a 14-room hotel located in the palace’s south wing. The hotel will also feature a new restaurant from famed French chef Alain Ducasse, the second-most decorated Michelin star chef in the world.

Tourists beware, though: A single night at the company’s other properties generally cost upwards of $500 per night, so a stay at Le Grand Contrôle is unlikely to be cheap. But visitors who want to shell out the money for a room can look forward to an unbeatable location, first-class dining, and the joy of relaxing while telling others to “let them eat cake” (which Marie Antoinette never said, but it's befitting nonetheless).

[h/t Thrillist]

This Company Will Pay an “Island-Hopping Instagrammer” to Document a Greek Vacation

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Maglara/iStock via Getty Images

If you took a vacation to Greece, you’d probably be snapping photos of every sun-soaked detail and sharing them with your friends and family on social media. As Thrillist reports, Unforgettable Greece is planning to pay one lucky traveler about $630 to do exactly that.

The company is offering a luxury nine-day tour of Greece next summer, with stops in Athens, Mykonos, Santorini, and Crete. Highlights include sunset sailing in Santorini, a Jeep island tour of Mykonos’s best beaches, a cooking class in Crete, a private tour of the Acropolis, and even a free Samsung S10 you can use to document your experiences. If you think these Grecian wonders would be enjoyed best with a travel buddy by your side, we have more good news: The winner is allowed to bring a friend for free.

All you have to do to apply is upload your finest travel photo to your public Instagram account, tag @unforgettablegreece, and include the hashtag #UnforgettableInstagrammer in your caption. Unforgettable Greece’s expert judges will choose their favorite photo and notify the winning “Island-Hopping Instagrammer” after the competition closes on Friday, November 15.

Though you don’t need to have any specific background in order to apply, the position is well-suited for those “with a passion for travel and photography” who “can reel off the best travel hashtags, are always looking for opportunities to capture a scenic shot, and know how to make people double-tap on your Insta shots.” If that sounds like it was written with you in mind, apply here.

It’s part of Unforgettable Greece’s venture to drum up enthusiasm for their recently launched Greece tours and also compile visual content to promote them across their own social media accounts.

While you’re waiting to find out if you’ve Instagrammed your way into a free vacation, check out these Greek words you might recognize from their English roots.

[h/t Thrillist]

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